We ever talk about them since participate in society activities,different people have different feeling,vision,experience of them,even now,I really don’t know what ‘s the exact mean of a love,but I have some ineffable feelings in my inner heart,maybe that is love.
There would have some different meanings in different period during a man and a woman met,falls in love with each other and got married.A feeling of intense desire and attraction toward a person with whom one is disposed to make a pair; and the emotion of sex and romance makes them met and falls in love with each other and got married.Marriage changed it to a deep,tender,ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude.
Fall in love at first sight maybe only needs a few milliseconds,but a real love process is a series of actions,changes,bringing lovers together.
Love is the foundation of marriage,and marriage makes it steady.They married because of love,and each of them wants is kind to each other and loves each other,patible with his or her weaknesses,Problems and solutions are mixed with love; most of them are unexpected because they are caused by the most ordinary,everyday items.My love and attraction moved forward to family,children,career and so on,so that makes my wife plain about it,a persuasive explanation is necessary and let her know that loving never stops whatever I am doing.
My sister is going to marry next month. I am so happy at the mere mention of it.My sister has been preparing for the wedding for couple of months. She took lots of photos with her boyfriend. Then she bought new clothes. My parents are busy preparing for her dowry. Because sister would like to have a different wedding, she insist the dowry should be books rather than other substances. The wedding will not invite too many people but just a few friends and relatives. I am looking forward her wedding.
Some believe it is reasonable for college students to select marriage in campus. Because, firstly, the college students have reached the national legal ages, 22 for men and 20 for women, for marriage. Secondly, suppose o students are fall in love with each other. Is it necessary for them to struggle to avoid marriage until graduation? The couples are supposed to help each other, love each other and conduct the harmonious little family on their own. All the matters they are faced with will not only help them taste sweet produced by family but also get to know the hardness to sustain a family. Furthermore, college students are usually to be found living together. Such behavior has no difference from those done after marriage. We should rather legalize such behavior than put aside them to happen secretly.However, some think it more negative then positive for college students to get married on campus. In their opinion, the college students, especially male students, are too young and semi-matured to be likely to shoulder the burdens brought by family and take the relative responsibility. On the other hand, it is showed by study that the devoice rate of those who get married early is much higher than that of those who get married late or at right time. Such high devoice rate is mainly due to the less consideration taken before marriage, even being a totally prompt impulse to some extent. Some stubborn problem appears gradually after marriage, which leads to the mutual discontents beeen couples and end up in devoice as a solution.It that case, I think, with more supports from parents and society, we can cope with study and love more intellectually if we ideally balance the positive and the negative caused by marriage on campus
【Should women work after marriage？】There must be some discussions on such a hot topic: should women work or just stay at home after marriage?Some people think it is cool to stay at home and be a pretty housewife, and take care of the house, and kids, and have everything from her wealthy hu *** and. While some other women think that is sucked. In their opinion, women may lost their identity and bee depressed, and even with all the money, gifts, and cars. In my view point, such a controversial topic depends on whether a woman's hu *** and makes enough to support a family and save for the child's college, wedding, and for their retirement. It also depends on whether has the temperament to deal with being at home for years without any plain. If both aren't the case, she ought to work.However, I think woman should also have some skills which can easily find her a job in order to against the risk from other aspects. Especially when her hu *** and get unemployment, or encounter some accidents. For the time being, she have to maintain the revenue and support her family. 手打，不用担心剽窃问题，供参考，大学作文也不需要那么长~希望回答对你有用
On one hand ,staying with parents can afford you living place,money,and so on.And it will be easy for you to municate with your parents if you need any help.It's also good for you to stay with your parents,so that they can look after you at any time,and you can have dinner with them.On the other hand,staying with parents after getting married can also causes many problems.Sometimes,your hu *** and or wife can not get on very well with your parents,they may argue with each other or even fighting.So,it's not a good idea to stay together.In my opinon,I think everything has o faces,and we need to deal with it in the rigtht way.Of course,we can still stay with our parents arter getting marry,but we should learn to respect them.If not,we'll catch a lot of problems.I wish everyone of us can enjoy the relationship we have had.That's all.Thank you!望采纳 谢谢！
今天，我们来到了阿姨家吃喜酒，哥哥结婚了。
“啊！那里可热闹了。
”我高兴的说。
而且，每个人都面带微笑，非常高兴的来庆祝。
“新郎新娘来啦！”有人大声说。
我们小孩便拿起彩带喷射器，往他们身上喷，不出一会儿，他们便满身是彩带。
他们不停的把彩带拿开，可是太多了，拿好一会儿，也是拿不完。
到晚上喝喜酒时，哥哥姐姐也来敬酒，我们也让他们表演节目，要是失败了，就给什么东西。
可惜我们这一桌一个也也难住他们。
最后喝酒，分发东西，样样都是喜气洋洋，还有发喜糖，可不知不觉的多10点了，还没结束，那就再等等吧。
Most people think that getting married is a vital ingredient for happiness in life. They don't, however, recognize the consequences of marriage. Rather than happiness, many are victims of its tormenting attributes. Marriage grants its followers more responsibility toward self and spouse, leading to more stressful lives. Also, the reduction of one's freedom is also being in effect, putting a limit toward independence. Lastly, one may not get along well with spouse, triggering redundant conflicts. Hence, it is not an equivalent with happiness.Marriage leads a major concern to people today with an increase in one's responsibility. Taking responsibility means that one must always take an initiative in doing things in order to achieve a purpose rather than to wait for others to do it instead. To meet up with others' expectations, one must do extra in order to achieve. More responsibility means more stress. Feeding a family, for instance, requires a higher salary. Voluntarily, one would start working extra hard to meet up with that expectation. While taking the burden, one may not realize that he/she is piling up stress, an amount too significant that it can never be released. Moreover, it is in human nature to desire for more; there is no limit to one's desire. To be a good spouse, one may work hard to achieve a goal; after it is attained, he/she may wish for more to be done. Responsibility would e to work again, the cycle then continues, on and on. Once one has piled up endless hours of labour, he/she may not realize that freedom has been gradually slipping away, in a pace that can never be retrieved.
China is a large country with 56 nationalities.Different nationalities have different marriage customs, but whatever the nationality is, the wedding ceremony is usually very plicated. The traditional Chinese marriage usually involves 6 necessary procedures, namely: match-making, engagement, betrothal presents, meeting the bride,three bows, and drinking wedlock wine. In addition, a typical Chinese wedding nowadays goes like this:when a new couple is engaged, what followed is a choice of the date of their marriage. Most people would favor a bank holiday or special Chinese festival for their relatives and friends to attend the wedding. However,quite a few others, especially those in the countryside, would probably ask a fortune-teller for a lucky date(usually an even number)so that their marriage would have＂Double Happiness＂. The wedding ceremony is usually presided warmly ,and the wedding ceremony very often ends with a very extravagant banquet. Toasts are made to wish the new couple long life, eternal love and happiness, early birth of a healthy baby and so on. Before the Chinese Wedding Day Before her wedding celebration, a Chinese bride traditionally goes into seclusion with her closest friends. This Chinese custom gives the bride-to-be some time to symbolically mourn the loss of her friends and family. Some time before the couple are married, the groom's family carries wedding gifts in red baskets and boxes to the bride's house. One of the baskets will contain ＂uang susu＂ or 'milk money'. Others will contain personal things for the bride, so that on her wedding day all of her personal belongings will be in the groom's house. The bride takes the gifts to another room where they are sorted through. Three days before the wedding day, women from the bride's family reciprocate, bearing gifts -- including some 'returns'-- in red wrappings to the groom's family.
Since September this year, the college students are now allowed to get married in campus, which is declared officially by the National Education Bureau. The results of this issue take a broad influence on the colleges, even on the whole society. Some are in favor of it while some are against it. Whether college students should be allowed to set up a family has bee a hot topic to be fiercely argued from then on.Some believe it is reasonable for college students to select marriage in campus. Because, firstly, the college students have reached the national legal ages, 22 for men and 20 for women, for marriage. Secondly, suppose o students are fall in love with each other. Is it necessary for them to struggle to avoid marriage until graduation? The couples are supposed to help each other, love each other and conduct the harmonious little family on their own. All the matters they are faced with will not only help them taste sweet produced by family but also get to know the hardness to sustain a family. Furthermore, college students are usually to be found living together. Such behavior has no difference from those done after marriage. We should rather legalize such behavior than put aside them to happen secretly.However, some think it more negative then positive for college students to get married on campus. In their opinion, the college students, especially male students, are too young and semi-matured to be likely to shoulder the burdens brought by family and take the relative responsibility. On the other hand, it is showed by study that the devoice rate of those who get married early is much higher than that of those who get married late or at right time. Such high devoice rate is mainly due to the less consideration taken before marriage, even being a totally prompt impulse to some extent. Some stubborn problem appears gradually after marriage, which leads to the mutual discontents beeen couples and end up in devoice as a solution.It that case, I think, with more supports from parents and society, we can cope with study and love more intellectually if we ideally balance the positive and the negative caused by marriage on campus.国家教育局正式通过从今年9月份开始，在校大学生可以在校结婚了.这个事件在学校乃至社会上引起了很大的反响，有赞成的，也有反对的，大学生能不能结婚已经成为一个热门的话题被大家激烈的讨论。
有些人认为大学生结婚是理所当然的。
因为，首先，大学生已经达到了国家法定的结婚年龄，国家法定的结婚年龄是男生22，女生20；其次，既然大家彼此相爱，何必非要等到大学毕业以后呢？结婚以后大家互相扶持，相亲相爱，共同经营这个温馨的小家，可以让两个人早点体验到家庭的温暖与一份持家的艰辛，也未尝不是一件好事啊；再者，现在大学生同居并不鲜见，其实很已与结婚生活无异。
与其背地里偷偷摸摸，倒不如为这种生活正名，使其合法化。
当然，也有一些人认为大学生结婚弊大于利。
他们认为，虽然大学生可能到了法定的结婚年龄，但是毕竟还年轻，心智还不健全，这么早结婚可能不能够背负成立家庭以后带来的负担和承担自己应服的责任，尤其是男方。
另外，根据研究表明，早婚人群的离婚率远远高于晚婚和适龄结婚的人群。
这主要是因为他们在结婚之前有欠考虑，完全是一时冲动，结婚以后问题渐渐暴露出来了，变现为对对方的不满，到最后到了难以容忍的地步就只有离婚能解决问题了。
我认为，只要权衡好这之间的利与弊，....
Chinese Wedding Customs & RitualsIn Chinese legend,the fatherly God-in-the-moonlight ties a red string around the ankles of the man and woman who are supposed to be hu *** and and wife someday.Thus,no matter how far apart they are,they will eventually get married...Proposal & BetrothalTwo families pick an auspicious date as the Betrothal Day.This is a formal meeting beeen the parents of the perspective bride and groom.The groom's family presents various proposal gifts that represents fertility and prosperity in Chinese Culture,which is also known as ＂Grand Gift＂.Thus,the o are considered officially engaged.Pre-Wedding RitualAfter the betrothal meeting,both families will make announcement to their relatives and friends by sending out ＂Double Happiness Cakes＂ along with invitations.The bride's family then prepares dowry and give a list of the dowries to the groom's family.The groom's family performs ＂setting bridal bed＂ ritual...The groom's family decorates the bridal house for the wedding,while the bride's family prepares household accessories,mostly bedding and dining necessities,for the new home.Wedding Day CeremonyOn the day of the wedding,o families performs ＂hair dressing＂ ritual and ＂capping＂ ritual for the bride and groom respectively.Then the groom sets out to the bride's home,and he will inevitably be blocked at her door by her friends,and the bride *** aids will play door game with the groom and his attendants.The bride and groom will then leave her home and proceed to meet the groom's parents for Tea Ceremony.The wedding date ceremony ends with a feast which features elaborate Chinese wedding food.
以下三篇供你参考，你最好根据自己的具体情况选用。
Should College Students Be Allowed to Get Married?(1)There is no denying the fact that it is a hotly debated topic today whether college students should be allowed to get married. Some time ago, the ban was lifted by some universities on students getting married. To this people's attitudes differ sharply. Some hold the positive view. They say that most college students are *** s and that it is a basic right for those who have reached the appropriate ages to get married. Besides, they argue that with their biological and emotional needs met, these students will study better. The ban on this means a severe violation of human rights. Many others, however, hold the negative opposite view. They claim that the university or college is a place to study instead of a munity to lead family life. Allowing college students to get married would adversely affect their study. For instance, they would spend too much time attending their family and love, unable to concentrate on their school work.As far as I am concerned, Weighing the arguments of both sides, I believe that college students should not be allowed to get married. Though mostly *** s, they are actually immature psychologically. Their wishes to get married are, more often than not, impulses. Besides, as students, they are not ready to support a family financially. (2)According to the newly revised Chinese Marriage Law, undergraduates are entitled to the right to get married. Many people are against this revised item since they are worried that this may disturb their pure campus life and exert negative effects on undergraduate students. However, I firmly hold that undergraduates should be allowed to get married.According to Chinese Marriage Law, women are endowed with the right to get married as long as they reach20, and men 22. But the law did not apply to undergraduates for quite a long time. Why could an *** undergraduate enjoy the legal right of being educated but had to be deprived of the right to get married? Isn't the latter an equally fundamental human right as the former?Second, undergraduates should not be excluded from marriage for the simple reason, as many claim, that they need to concentrate on academic study. Having higher education is only one aspect of a person's life. Love and marriage, as one important lesson of life course, should be learned sooner or later. Actually, more often than not, true love can kindle enthusia *** of life, and may motivate the student couples to strive for their mon bright future.Meanwhile, many people say that, college students are not mature enough to maintain a successful marriage. On one hand, they only tell half the truth. The whole truth is that few are mature enough to handle such a delicate and unpredictable relationship. On the other hand, undergraduates should not be seen as na?ve children.Nowadays, our government aims at promoting a human-oriented and harmonious society. So our mind should also be updated to keep pace with the rapidly developing world. To give the undergraduates legal permission to get married is just a case in point that indicates the awakened respect for individuals' human rights and the diversity of life course. (3)As for me, I surely side with the opinion that undergraduates are entitled to the right to get married. And the major reason is that college students are *** s with free wills and initiatives, and we are mature enough to be responsible for our choices. We are no different from those who graduated from high school and got married at an early age. Be it the permission from Marriage Law or forbiddance from school regulations, these are nothing but objective conditions created to protect younger generation and guide them to the right path. Actually, as a college student, the problems we are facing are how to earn some bread and how to achieve further development. In many cases, we are afraid to make mitments because we cannot make a living or guarantee the future yet. In this sense, if you are able to ensure a bright future, if you can enjoy long-lasting happiness, say, you have started a pany of your own or o of you are designated to stay in the university after graduation as faculty members, what's the problem with getting married?
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