第1个回答 2012-06-30
Get along with people in the first place, we must be bold to get along with people, treat correctly getting along with the contradiction of produce. We have to know, in with family members, friends, schoolmates, teachers and even with all the people get along, happen some contradictions, trigger some disputes, is very normal. Teeth and tongue sometimes will "fight", how much more shall we does a personality is different, be fond of different ordinary people? As the saying goes, "every man has his faults." Every one of us has to avoid the disadvantages of this or that. When differences of opinion, conflicts of interest, we often expose your faults, and the other party fussy about every detail, argued. This contradiction to cause, disputes arising from, friendly relationship which overshadowed. In this situation, will give our study and life bring a lot of negative effects. If we can't see it correctly, in time to resolve it, it is easy that contradiction enlargement, even can cause catastrophic consequences. Conversely, if we have close harmonious interpersonal relationship, you can fish in water, and greatly improve the learning efficiency. So in to themselves and to others, is a good thing! Second, we must carefully study the method of getting along with people, good at communicating with others. Get along with people is also a great knowledge, contains the many skills of. I think in these skills of the above, you must is "sincere" the "golden key" to come into other people's mind gate ". They that sincere welcome. Such numerous examples, students must also have experience. And, of course, is not enough only sincerely, we also have a generous the great mind. I remember there is such a few words: "more than the vast is the sky, wider than the sky is the soul". The other words much good! Carefully taste it, you can be a soul "baptism", understanding the essence of person. Yes, we will meet with one sincere, to the heart of the more generous to be treated. When someone offend you, when someone trample your dignity, we should stick to principles in, on the basis of the efforts to them to beat their swords into plowshares. That "an eye for an eye", "tip to MaiMang" way real not advisable. That will only make yourself into "dead end", into also difficult, is hardly a retreat, why don't you shake hands, step back and the broad sky? The classmates, the society in which we live fast changing, in order to survive, the communication between people consciousness will become increasingly intense. And with the rapid social development, interpersonal also will increasingly frequent close, it will be to our relationship quality higher and higher demands are proposed. Let we uphold sincerity generous of behavior of ", warmly brave to get along with people! You will be delighted to discover, pay attention to your eye is so warm friendly, give your return is how a relief!
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与人相处 首先，我们必须大胆地与人相处，正确对待相处中产生的矛盾。我们必须认识到，在与亲人、朋友、同学、老师乃至与所有人的相处中，发生一些矛盾，引发一些纠纷，都是非常正常的。牙齿和舌头有时都会“打架”，何况我们一个个性格各异、喜好不同的凡夫俗子呢？有道是：“金无足赤，人无完人。”我们每一个人都难免有这样那样的缺点。当意见分歧、利益冲突时，我们往往就会暴露出自己的缺点，与对方斤斤计较、争执不下。矛盾由此滋生，纠纷由此引起，融洽友好的人际关系由此蒙上阴影。处于这种状况，必定会给我们的学习和生活带来很大的负面影响。如果我们不能正确地看待它，及时地化解它，就容易使矛盾扩大化，甚至会造成不堪设想的后果。反之，如果我们拥有亲密和谐的人际关系，就能如鱼得水，大大提高学习效率。如此于人于己，都是一桩好事！ 其次，我们必须认真学习与人相处的方法，善于和他人沟通。与人相处同样是一门高深的学问，当中蕴含着许多技巧。我认为立于这些技巧之上的，首先必须是“真诚”这把“金钥匙”来启开他人的“心灵之门”的。他们播下的真诚的拥戴。这样的例子不胜枚举，同学们必定也有所体会。 当然，仅有真诚还是不够的，我们还要有一颗宽厚博大的心灵。我记得有这么一句话：“比海洋更广阔的是天空，比天空更广阔的是心灵”。这句话说得多好啊！细细品味它，你一定能受到一次灵魂的“洗礼”，领悟做人的真谛。是的，我们要与人以诚相见，更要以宽厚之心善待他人。当别人冒犯你时，当别人践踏你的尊严时，我们应在坚守原则的基础上，努力化干戈为玉帛。那种“以牙还牙”、“针尖对麦芒”的处事方式实不可取！那样只会使自己走入“死胡同”，进亦难，退亦难，何不握手言和，退一步海阔天空呢？ 同学们，我们所处的社会瞬息万变，为了生存，人们的交往意识将日趋强烈。而随着社会的飞速发展，人际交往也将愈加频繁密切，这将对我们的交往素质提出越来越高的要求。让我们秉承真诚宽厚的为人之道，热忱勇敢地与人相处吧！你一定会欣喜地发现，关注你的目光是那么的温暖友善，给予你的回报是多么的令人欣慰！