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Question

Intimacy is key in a world of
connection where individuals negotiate complex networks of friendship,
minimize(减少) differences, try to reach
agreement, and avoid the appearance of superiority, which would highlight
differences. In a word of status, independence is key, because a primary means
of establishing status is to tell others what to do, and taking orders is a
marker of low status. Though all humans need both intimacy and independence,
women tend to focus on the first and men on the second. It as if their
lifeblood ran in different directions.
These
differences can give women and men differing views of the same situation, as
they did in the case of a couple I will call Linda and Josh. When Josh’s old
high-school friend called him at work and announced he’d be in town on business
the following month, Josh invited him to stay for the weekend.
That
evening he informed Linda that they were going to have a houseguest, and that
he and his friend would go out together the first night to chat like old times.
Linda was upset. She was going to be away on business the week before, and the Friday
night when Josh would be out with his friend would be her first night home. But
what upset her the most was that Josh had made these plans on his own and
informed her of them, rather than discussing them with her before extending the
invitation.
Linda would never make plans, for a weekend
or an evening, without first checking with Josh. She can’t understand why he
doesn’t show her the same courtesy and consideration that she shows him. But
when she protests, Josh says, “I can’t say to my friend, ‘I have to ask my wife
for permission’!”
To Josh, checking with his wife means seeking
permission, which implies that he is not independent, not free to act on his
own. It would make him feel like a child. To Linda, checking with her husband
has nothing to do with permission. She assumes that spouses discuss their plans
with each other because their lives are interviewed, so the actions of one have
consequences for the other. Not only dose Linda not mind telling someone, “I
have to check with Josh”; quite the contrary--- she likes it. It makes her feel
good to know and show that she in involved with someone, that her life is bound
up with someone else’s.
Linda and Josh both felt more upset by this
incident, and others like it, than seemed warranted(给…以正当理由),
because it cut to the core of their primacy concerns. Linda was hurt because
she sensed a failure of closeness in their relationship: He didn’t care about
her as much as she cared about him. And he was hurt because he felt she wastrying to control him and limit his freedom.

Answer 1

你放心用我这个
After two months of effort, finally completed his graduation project and thesis writing work, where I want to thank my design instructor, was his thesis topic and technical direction to the design I made many valuable views changes in the final stages of testing and taking the time in his busy schedule for me to provide the necessary help, which makes the successful completion of my graduation project development work, teachers extensive knowledge, keen thinking and pragmatic work style to I left a deep impression, which would make my lifetime, would like to express my sincere thanks to the teacher. Thank the teachers at school, in my time on my university inculcation and generous help in the actual development work, I deeply felt the importance of basic theoretical knowledge, only learn at the university level, have good solid theoretical basis, so as to work in the future to learn faster, thus handy, with some success, to truly become a socially useful person and others. Finally, thanks to my students in the graduate design and thesis writing in my support and help. After 4 months of graduation learned a lot about Jsp, MVC, WEB design knowledge, understanding of the many things that can not learn from books, to the knowledge learned previously carried out a comprehensive application, which is the future it is very helpful. Received a thesis topic from the beginning of the realization of the system, to study the completion of the article, is a new step for me to try and challenge, which I completed in college the largest projects. During this time, I learned a lot, there are many feelings, from the obscure to the construction site, on the JSP, Servlet, ZK, and other related technologies not understand the state, I began a long study, see relevant information and books, so vague concept in his mind gradually clear, so that their work is very immature perfected step by step, I learn every time the harvest is improved, the success of each trial will be exciting to me for some time. From which I am also fully aware of the construction site in this way to bring the fun to our lives. The project design from requirements analysis to establish a database to establish a detailed code design is a step by step in accordance with their real practical steps in project development, and their exercise is very large, is truly their own learning process and research process. Hope this experience will allow me to motivate me to continue learning after the progress. Owing to time constraints, the limited number of technology and equipment, the system has some shortcomings, to be further improved and perfected

Answer 2

After more than two months of effort, he is finally completed the graduation design and graduation thesis writing, here, I want to thank my design guiding teacher, is he in paper topic selection and technical direction to I put forward many valuable design ideas, in the final test modification stages and for taking the time to provide me with the necessary help, it makes me finish smoothly graduation design development work, the teacher profound knowledge, keen ideas and down-to-earth style of work impressed me, this will allow my lifelong benefit, hereby express our heartfelt thanks to the teacher.
Thank school teachers, in my university time for my inculcation and selfless help, in the actual development work, I deeply realized the importance of basic theoretical knowledge, in university only good study, mastering profound theoretical basis, such ability in the future work faster, thus handy, learning, a real achievement to society and others useful person.
Finally and thank you to my classmates, in the graduation design and in writing the paper give me support and help.
After four months of graduation design learned a lot about the Jsp, MVC, WEB design knowledge, understand a lot of the books you can't learn things, learned knowledge in the previously analyzed the comprehensive application for future work, this is very helpful. From start getting paper title to the system is realized, then to the finish, step paper is new to me try and challenge, which I also during the university the biggest project completion. During this time, I learned a lot of knowledge from feeling, also have a lot of website construction of JSP, glass, ZK Servlet, related technology is not understand state, I started a long learning, examine relevant material and books, let oneself fuzzy concepts in the mind clear, make oneself very gradually theverdant works perfect step by step, every improvement are up is my study harvest, every test's success will let me excited good for a period of time. From which I also fully understand the website construction this way to the pleasure of life brings to us.
This project design from establish requirements analysis to the establishment of database, detailed code design is in accordance with the real actual project development step by step, the steps of their exercise is very big, is the true self learning process and research process. Hope this experience can let me in after learning of incentive I continue to progress.
Due to the haste, some technology and equipment limited, this system has some shortcomings, further improved and perfected. Question adds:

No one has help translate? The three are before the draw directly online translation?...

Answer 3

这是多么热的一天，一个老师不得不打开教室所有的窗户，这使得教室更加凉爽，可老师开了窗，却没得到她想要的，因为这是其它学生们玩耍的时间。

外面操场有很多噪音，以至于她得拉大嗓门讲课，

她尽可能继续上她的课，但是不久她得嗓子就因此而疼痛。

“我们不能这样上课了，”她跟她的学生说。“我必须关上窗户或则阻止外面的学生这样吵，你们认为该怎么做呢？”

“请不要关窗户！”她的学生说。“我们会热死的，还是去阻止他们别这么吵吧”
“好吧，”老师说，老师走到一个窗口.她把头伸出窗外，并指着在地上打滚，而且吵闹的孩子，说”请到这里来。”

小男孩站起来，慢慢地走向老师。

你多大了。老师问他，并上下打量着她。

“我八岁，”他说，

“不要撒谎，”老师说，“没有一个八岁的孩子像你这么脏！”

Answer 4

After more than two months of effort, he is finally completed the graduation design and graduation thesis writing, here, I want to thank my design guiding teacher, is he in paper topic selection and technical direction to I put forward many valuable design ideas, in the final test modification stages and for taking the time to provide me with the necessary help, it makes me finish smoothly graduation design development work, the teacher profound knowledge, keen ideas and down-to-earth style of work impressed me, this will allow my lifelong benefit, hereby express our heartfelt thanks to the teacher.

Thank school teachers, in my university time for my inculcation and selfless help, in the actual development work, I deeply realized the importance of basic theoretical knowledge, in university only good study, mastering profound theoretical basis, such ability in the future work faster, thus handy, learning, a real achievement to society and others useful person.

Finally and thank you to my classmates, in the graduation design and in writing the paper give me support and help.

After four months of graduation design learned a lot about the Jsp, MVC, WEB design knowledge, understand a lot of the books you can't learn things, learned knowledge in the previously analyzed the comprehensive application for future work, this is very helpful. From start getting paper title to the system is realized, then to the finish, step paper is new to me try and challenge, which I also during the university the biggest project completion. During this time, I learned a lot of knowledge from feeling, also have a lot of website construction of JSP, glass, ZK Servlet, related technology is not understand state, I started a long learning, examine relevant material and books, let oneself fuzzy concepts in the mind clear, make oneself very gradually theverdant works perfect step by step, every improvement are up is my study harvest, every test's success will let me excited good for a period of time. From which I also fully understand the website construction this way to the pleasure of life brings to us.

This project design from establish requirements analysis to the establishment of database, detailed code design is in accordance with the real actual project development step by step, the steps of their exercise is very big, is the true self learning process and research process. Hope this experience can let me in after learning of incentive I continue to progress.

Due to the haste, some technology and equipment limited, this system has some shortcomings, further improved and perfected。

Answer 5

After more than two months of effort, he is finally completed the graduation design and graduation thesis writing, here, I want to thank my design guiding teacher, is he in paper topic selection and technical direction to I put forward many valuable design ideas, in the final test modification stages and for taking the time to provide me with the necessary help, it makes me finish smoothly graduation design development work, the teacher profound knowledge, keen ideas and down-to-earth style of work impressed me, this will allow my lifelong benefit, hereby express our heartfelt thanks to the teacher.
Thank school teachers, in my university time for my inculcation and selfless help, in the actual development work, I deeply realized the importance of basic theoretical knowledge, in university only good study, mastering profound theoretical basis, such ability in the future work faster, thus handy, learning, a real achievement to society and others useful person.
Finally and thank you to my classmates, in the graduation design and in writing the paper give me support and help.
After four months of graduation design learned a lot about the Jsp, MVC, WEB design knowledge, understand a lot of the books you can't learn things, learned knowledge in the previously analyzed the comprehensive application for future work, this is very helpful. From start getting paper title to the system is realized, then to the finish, step paper is new to me try and challenge, which I also during the university the biggest project completion. During this time, I learned a lot of knowledge from feeling, also have a lot of website construction of JSP, glass, ZK Servlet, related technology is not understand state, I started a long learning, examine relevant material and books, let oneself fuzzy concepts in the mind clear, make oneself very gradually theverdant works perfect step by step, every improvement are up is my study harvest, every test's success will let me excited good for a period of time. From which I also fully understand the website construction this way to the pleasure of life brings to us.
This project design from establish requirements analysis to the establishment of database, detailed code design is in accordance with the real actual project development step by step, the steps of their exercise is very big, is the true self learning process and research process. Hope this experience can let me in after learning of incentive I continue to progress.
Due to the haste, some technology and equipment limited, this system has some shortcomings, further improved and perfected.