disappointed in和disappointed at的情况比较，大致区别如下：
1、表示对某人感到失望，通常用介词 in，即be disappointed in sb.如：
I’m disappointed in you! How could you have lied likethat? 你让我失望了，你怎么能像那样说谎呢?
My parents will be disappointed in me if I failin the exam. 要是我考试不及格，我父母会对我感到失望的。
2、表示对某一行为感到失望，通常用介词 at，即be disappointed at doing sth.或be disappointed at sth. 如：
He was really disappointed at not being able togo. 他未能去成实在感到失望
We are all disappointed at his failure. 我们都为他的失败而感到失望。
扩展资料：
be disappointed 不仅可以接in和at等介词，后面还可有以下接法：
1、接不定式。即be disappointed to do sth.如：
I was disappointed not to be chosen. 我没被选中，感到很沮丧。
He was disappointed to hear the news. 听到这消息他很失望。
2、接 that 从句。即be disappointed that....如：
We were disappointed that you couldn’t come. 你不能来我们感到很失望。
I’m rather disappointed that he should get the post. 他竟会得到这个职位，我感到很失望。
1、表示对某人感到失望，通常用介词 in，即be disappointed in sb.
I'm disappointed in you─I really thought I could trust you!
你真让我失望——我原以为可以相信你的！
2、表示对某一行为感到失望，通常用介词 at，即be disappointed at doing sth.或be disappointed at sth.
They were bitterly disappointed at the result of the game.
他们对比赛结果极为失望。
3、表示对某一事实或情况感到失望，两者都可以用。
disappointed
英[ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪntɪd] 美[ˌdɪsəˈpɔɪntɪd]
adj. 失望的; 沮丧的，失意的;
v. 使（人）失望( disappoint的过去式和过去分词); 使破灭，使落空;
扩展资料
表示失望的同义词：
1、Let sb down
表面上看是“把某人放倒”，其实这里不是说人，而是人的心情，意思是令人失望。
例：I'm relying on your help - please don't let me down.
我就靠你了——别让我失望。
2、Dejected
Rejected表示“被拒绝”，dejected则指的是“沮丧”、“灰心”。
例：She looked a bit dejected when they told her she didn't get the job.
当她知道未能得到那份工作时，她脸上露出一丝失望的表情。
3、fail
这个词的英文解释是： If someone fails you, they do not do what you had expected or trusted them to do.可以理解为“使……失望”，也可以理解为“辜负”。
例：We waited twenty-one years, don't fail us now.
我们等了21年，如今不要辜负我们。
4、Bummer
Bummed指“失望的，沮丧的”，令某人失望可以说bum sb out。Bummer则表示“令人不快的事情”、“带来不便的事”。
例：I locked my keys in the car - bummer!
我把钥匙锁在汽车里了——真糟糕！
5、Downer
除了表示“镇静剂”，这个词还指“令人沮丧的事”。
例：You lost your job? That's a real downer!
你丢掉了工作？真是太倒霉了！
本回答被网友采纳(1) 表示对某人感到失望，通常用介词 with, in。如：
I’m disappointed in you! How could you have lied likethat? 你让我失望了，你怎么能像那样说谎呢?
My parents will be disappointed in [with] me if I failin the exam. 要是我考试不及格，我父母会对我感到失望的。
(2) 表示对某一行为(doing sth)感到失望，通常用介词 at, about等。如：
We are all disappointed at [about] his failure. 我们都为他的失败而感到失望。zn
He was really disappointed about [at] not being able togo. 他未能去成实在感到失望。
(3) 表示对某一事实或情况感到失望，一般用介词 with, at, in 等。如：
He’s disappointed at [in] the result. 他对结果感到失望
He must be very disappointed with [at, about] your examresults. 他对你的考试成绩一定非常失望。
(4) 表示因得不到某东西或实现不了某愿望而失望，通常用介词of。如：
I was disappointed of the car. 没等到车子我感到很失望。
He was disappointed of his ambition. 他因实现不了抱负而沮丧。
2. be disappointed 后接不定式。如：
He was disappointed to hear the news. 听到这消息他很失望。
I was disappointed not to be chosen. 我没被选中，感到很沮丧。、
3. be disappointed 后接 that 从句。
We were disappointed that you couldn’t come. 你不能来我们感到很失望。
I’m rather disappointed that he should get the post. 他竟会得到这个职位，我感到很失望。
4. 比较 disappointing & disappointed：
(1) disappointing 表示“令人失望的”，通常用于事物给人的感觉。如：
What disappointing weather! 天气真叫人失望!
Your work is really disappointing. 你的工作真是令人失望。
若用于“人”，则表示该人令别人失望。比较：
The boy was very disappointing. 这男孩很令人失望。
(2) disappointed 表示“失望的”、“感到失望的”，通常用以说明“人”自己的感觉。如：
She looks disappointed. 她看起来很失望
I am very disappointed with my new bike. 我对我的新自行车感到很失望。
若用于修饰 voice, look, expression, appearance, manner等名词，则表示与之相关名词的逻辑主语感到失望。比较：
We noticed a disappointing look on his face. 我们注意到他脸上一种令人失望的表情。(“他”并不失望，但见了他表情的人会失望)
We noticed a disappointed look on his face. 我们注意到他脸上有一种失望的表情。(感到失望的是“他”，不是别人)
(1) 表示对某人感到失望，通常用介词 with, in。如：
I’m disappointed in you! How could you have lied likethat? 你让我失望了，你怎么能像那样说谎呢?
My parents will be disappointed in [with] me if I failin the exam. 要是我考试不及格，我父母会对我感到失望的。
(2) 表示对某一行为(doing sth)感到失望，通常用介词 at, about等。如：
We are all disappointed at [about] his failure. 我们都为他的失败而感到失望。zn
He was really disappointed about [at] not being able togo. 他未能去成实在感到失望。
(3) 表示对某一事实或情况感到失望，一般用介词 with, at, in 等。如：
He’s disappointed at [in] the result. 他对结果感到失望
He must be very disappointed with [at, about] your examresults. 他对你的考试成绩一定非常失望。
(4) 表示因得不到某东西或实现不了某愿望而失望，通常用介词of。如：
I was disappointed of the car. 没等到车子我感到很失望。
He was disappointed of his ambition. 他因实现不了抱负而沮丧。
2. be disappointed 后接不定式。如：
He was disappointed to hear the news. 听到这消息他很失望。
I was disappointed not to be chosen. 我没被选中，感到很沮丧。、
3. be disappointed 后接 that 从句。
We were disappointed that you couldn’t come. 你不能来我们感到很失望。
I’m rather disappointed that he should get the post. 他竟会得到这个职位，我感到很失望。
4. 比较 disappointing & disappointed：
(1) disappointing 表示“令人失望的”，通常用于事物给人的感觉。如：
What disappointing weather! 天气真叫人失望!
Your work is really disappointing. 你的工作真是令人失望。
若用于“人”，则表示该人令别人失望。比较：
The boy was very disappointing. 这男孩很令人失望。
(2) disappointed 表示“失望的”、“感到失望的”，通常用以说明“人”自己的感觉。如：
She looks disappointed. 她看起来很失望
I am very disappointed with my new bike. 我对我的新自行车感到很失望。
若用于修饰 voice, look, expression, appearance, manner等名词，则表示与之相关名词的逻辑主语感到失望。比较：
We noticed a disappointing look on his face. 我们注意到他脸上一种令人失望的表情。(“他”并不失望，但见了他表情的人会失望)
We noticed a disappointed look on his face. 我们注意到他脸上有一种失望的表情。(感到失望的是“他”，不是别人)本回答被提问者和网友采纳
1、表示对某人感到失望，通常用介词 in，即be disappointed in sb.如：
I’m disappointed in you! How could you have lied likethat? 你让我失望了，你怎么能像那样说谎呢?
My parents will be disappointed in me if I failin the exam. 要是我考试不及格，我父母会对我感到失望的。
2、表示对某一行为感到失望，通常用介词 at，即be disappointed at doing sth.或be disappointed at sth. 如：
He was really disappointed at not being able togo. 他未能去成实在感到失望
We are all disappointed at his failure. 我们都为他的失败而感到失望