现代大学生的恋爱观

Question

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Answer 1

个人觉得现代大学生的恋爱观

基于以下几点　　
1，提倡志同道合的爱情。在恋人的选择上最重要的条件应该是志同道合，思想品德、事业理想和生活情趣等大体一致。应该是理想、道德、义务、事业和性爱的有机结合。一般情况下，异性感情的发展是沿着熟人－朋友－好朋友－知己－恋人这一线索发展的，当一个男性成为一个女生心中任何人都不能代替的角色时，爱情就可能降临。在分享快乐和痛苦、共同成长的过程中，爱情就会产生和发展。

　　 2，摆正爱情与事业的关系。大学生应该把事业放在首位，摆正爱情与事业的关系，不能把宝贵的时间都用于谈情说爱而放松了学习。因为学业是大学生价值感的主要支柱。当女大学把爱情视为生命的唯一时，爱情就是一株温室中的花朵，娇弱美丽却经不起任何的打击。当爱情成为女性唯一的存在价值时，她本人就会失去人格的独立和魅力，也很容易失去被爱的理由。

　　3，懂得爱情是一种相互理解，是相互信任，是一份责任和奉献。理解对方是为个人和对方营造一种轻松和快乐的氛围，没有人追逐爱情只是为了被约束；相互信任是自信的表现，自己都不想信自己值得别人去爱的人，别人会全心全意爱他吗？责任和奉献则意味着个人道德的修养，它是获得崇高的爱情的基础。
总结:
当爱情受挫后，用理智来驾驭感情，通过增强理智感，分析原因，总结经验教训，寻找解决问题的方法和途径，在新的追求中确认和实现自己的价值，从而提高自己的心理承受能力和思想水平。

Answer 2

It is an indisputable fact that most colleage students fall in love with somebody.What about contemporary colleage students' view of love?In my opinion,contemporary colleage students have the following 2 views of love.On one hand,treating more seriously in love and thinking love is on the basis of feelings.They are generally more mature psychologically, there is a certain sense of responsibility and a better understanding of each other.On the other hand,dealing with the attitude of love not seriously,it is not sincere. This type of colleage students regard love is just for fun,or meet a variety of desires.They are basically no sense of responsibility,there is not love between the two sides and they know nothing about each other.
The reasons for the incorrect view of love mentioned above lies in the following aspects.Firstly,Boredom.Some college students lack of study power and aim, so turn to love to spend time search for happiness.Secondly,Curiosity.The idea of love is not fully reflected in the high school because of study stress.When one turns to a colleage student the idea of love shown result from high degree of study freedom.Lastly,boring.To someone campus life is monotony,even 3 point 1 line life become all the day.Coupled with the intervention from parents significantly reduced,so he in order to be happy and seek the spirit of love.
Fall in love with others is not a bad thing.The key is to hold one's focus to future-oriented.
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