Summary 】
In win west across the cultural social intercourse, the case of the cultural conflict sees not fresh often, affected the association seriously smoothly progress, so we have the reason that the necessity finds out its deep time very much, and adopt the certain measure to foster the ability of across the cultural social intercourse, avoiding the cultural conflict.
【 Keyword 】 across the cultural social intercourse, cultural difference, cultural conflict
Open the degree outward along with China gradual thorough, the person of the west society walked into our visual field with thing more and more, in this kind of case, multinational area, across the race and across the economy and the society association of the culture and will increase with each passing day, this provided many and western opportunity of person contact and associations for us, this for deepen us of the comprehension of the west society is a good matter, but this is not a simple affair, because what we face is to come from the unfamiliar culture and nations, mode of thinking, the life habit and the behavior method and our different person, the ineluctability will appear the phenomenon of the cultural conflict in the process of with it associate.
1. the medium west acrosses the cultural conflict that appear usually in the cultural social intercourse
The cultural conflict that will appear has a lot of kinds in win west across the cultural social intercourse, we are impossible here 11 describe, can list more familiar several kind only.
The conflict of 1.1 privacies
The privacy idea of the Chinese is weaker, think personal to belong in collective, pay attention to solidify the friendly affection together, mutual concern, hence the Chinese usually would like to understand the other people very much all the sweet and bitter experiences, the other party also would like to the open heart tell mutually.But the western person then pays attention to personal privacy very much, paying attention to personal space, would not like to are excessive to mention own affair toward other people, even would not like to let other people interfere.Therefore west in the privacy problem ascend the both parties usually take place the conflict, for example:The Chinese meet and usually will inquire the age, marital status, children of the other party for the first time, occupation, even income, this is a kind of manner in the eyes of the Chinese, but then think that these problems infringed upon their privacy in western person's eyes.
The conflict of 1.2 time views
The western person's time view and the money views are a contact together of, time is a peculiarly idea deeply rooted, so they cherish time very much, arrangement usually all doing to time in the life with meticulous care and plan, and became to go to an appointment on time good habit.At the west, to visit the someone, must notify or agree on in advance, and the purpose, time and locations that explain to visit, go into business to settle the rear and can carry on.But the Chinese then belong to many nation that make it a rule toward time, at time of usage up have very big of at will sex, will not be like the western person generally so strictly of carry on according to the plan, the western person is unwell with this usually should.
The conflict of 1.3 ceremonious languages
The Chinese pay attention to the condescension, at with person's social intercourse, stress" a person", see this make a kind of virtue, this is a kind of manner phenomenon that is rich with the Chinese cultural special features.At the other people speak favorably us, we usually would from devaluate a lot of, with the form condescension polite.The west nation but have no such culture the habit, be when they be subjected to speak favorably, total will say that a" the Thank you" means to accept very happily.Because of medium west cultural difference, we think that the western person is too self-confident, nowise modest;But when the western person hear the Chinese negate the other people thus very surprised with ownly speak favorably or hear they negating by themselves ownly of achieve, even devaluate oneself get not worth a cently, would, thinking the Chinese insincerity.
The conflict of 1.4 the dining customs
The Chinese nation vegetable contain good tradition of the enthusiasm hospitality.On the social intercourse situation and feasts, enthusiasm of Chinese usually mutual respect the smoke toast.Chinese guest of 宴 , even the delicacy good dinner puts full, the host are also total to speak a few " forgive much and much" to wait the ceremonious words habitually.The host sometimes will use to clip the vegetables in the bowl that the chopsticks go toward the guest, advising the guest to eat vegetables more and drink wine more with various way.But at the west nation, the people stress to respect personal rights and personal privacies, so the matter that they will not do to force to do.Time of have a meal, would be hard to go toward in no case to clip the vegetables in your bowl, the oneself wants to eat what eat what, they also will not advise the guest to drink the wine with various way, will not want that you get drunk not.
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